Chimamanda
Adichie is my voice. She was able to speak exactly what I was trying to express
for the past five years. Ignorance. Stereotypes. I remember how my mind was
filled with these thoughts for ages and I finally decided to create a learning
program to prevent these things in order to avoid bigger problems like
discrimination. Unfortunately, after working for a year and a half on that
project, I had to hand it over to my friend because I moved here.
The
first time I've realized about the existence of ignorance was when I was in 4th
grade - the moment when children start to identify themselves with a certain
race, ethnicity, or nationality. Of course, me being Japanese played a huge
role in my life.
All
Asians eat dogs and monkey brains. All Asians are smart in math but terrible in
English. All Asians are submissive and constantly dominated by their strict
parents. These stereotypes are something that I hear practically every day
(no exaggeration). The part that confused me the most at that time was none of
them were actually true for me. They could’ve been true for many Asians, yet
they were not “complete.” People assumed this applied to every Asian including
me. Just like what Adichie said, people only see one side of a story of your
“group”. They see many versions of that story and tend to overgeneralize. Why
is it that they only see one side of a story? For one, it’s because newspapers,
literature, and the Internet only show what the audience wants to see. No one
is interested in reading an article about an Asian who is mediocre at math,
doesn’t eat anything exotic, and is similar to anyone around the world.
Everyone would rather read an article talking about an Asian who won a prize for being a math
genius or an Asian who committed suicide due to excessive pressure from parents.
They want those types of stories and
the media provides them with these. The audience only remembers those and anything that disproves their
prior view of the group, they will forget.
I
have seen this ever since I was little. Moving from country to country, I have
encountered several people who have misconceptions of a certain group. A prime
example of this is when I moved to New York. Many times, when I mentioned to
the New Yorkers that I have lived in Bahrain, a Muslim country right next to
Saudi Arabia, they would be astonished by the fact that I was even alive. To
them (especially after 9/11), Muslims equaled terrorists – cruel, violent, and
immoral. Ironically, when I think of one word that described Bahrain, I use the
word “peaceful.”
Adichie speaks the truth. If I were to name one thing that
seemed to be similar in all seven countries that I lived in, it would be
ignorance. You. Me. Them. Us. We all do it and although it’s sad, everyone tends to believe the things that they are exposed to, overgeneralize, and assume that
that one side of a story they hear is everything. It was so inspiring how Adichie was able to explain this so well that I even sent this to my former supervisor
of the project I mentioned above. Because believe me, trying to explain about
other's narrow-mindedness and attempting to make your audience feel in awe is
extremely hard. She was simply amazing.
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